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An Adventure-Sized Breakfast

Every day, I say to our three-year-old: “What kind of adventures will we have today?” And he gets a little gleam in his eye and usually says we’re going to do something CRAZY, like go fishing in the ocean or fly like a bird!! Wow – the imagination! 

Truthfully, he is happy if he just gets to drive his cars and trains all over the living room, but I like to make sure we have lots of different “adventures” during the week. 

One adventure that will be EPIC – a whole summer in the making, I’m sure – is our gardens. Our son is already helping daddy with the BIG BIG dirt pile, pushing toy truckloads down the hill to fill up the garden beds. It’s quite an adventure for him to act like a real construction worker in the dirt and yard!

 

He likes to rake the beds, shovel, carry things for daddy, and even attempt to man the wheelbarrow! 

 

Oops! It fell over!

He’s always ready to get dirty and always ready to explore, and loves to watch plants grow, although we need to caution him not to pull them up to check on their progress. Trust us, they are growing!!

To get our adventures started, I like to serve up Quaker’s Perfect Portions Oatmeal in the mornings! I’m the real oatmeal lover in the house, but our son will tolerate a little, because the cinnamon flavor we were sent is so yummy! So it’s good that I can measure out JUST what he will eat so we’re not wasting any. 

Perfect Portions Oatmeal is not that sweet either, so I can add a little touch of sweetness with my preferred honey or maple syrup instead of refined sugars. I like that! 

What kinds of adventures are you going on this summer? 

Every day is an adventure and with Quaker® Perfect Portions I know I am providing my family with the fuel they need for their epic adventures.

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He’s 10 Months!

I still can’t believe it when I tell people, but yes, the baby is ten months old. And I’m already planning his first birthday party (*tears*)

He’s growing into such a charmer, with a very strong sense of self!! Here’s some updates!

First, can I just say, photo shoots have gotten seriously harder. He WILL NOT SIT STILL in the Nap Nanny. Not to mention he destroys the Sticky Bellies month sticker the minute I put it on – I finally resorted to sticking it on his bum, but then he wouldn’t stay still on his belly either. Here’s all I could get this month! The last one in this set just cracks me up – so grouchy at picture time!

Hair: The peach fuzz is getting a tad thicker, but still he is a fairly bald baby!

Teeth: One lone tooth still sparkles at us every time he does his famous cheesy grin (he grins so hard, it cracks us all up!). I love how his nose wrinkles!

Movement: Still not really crawling, he’s perfected his one-arm Army crawl, although he gets up on his knees and rocks, and is pulling himself up / kneeling while playing. He definitely loves to move though and it’s nearly impossible to change his diaper without him flipping over on us to see what’s going on.

Toys: He loves everything – balls, squeakers, anything his brother has at the moment. He’s just getting into driving a car or train back and forth on the floor. He hasn’t developed a “favorite” toy that I can tell yet.

Communication: He can sign “milk,” he claps and waves on command, and I think he’s trying to sign “more” but it really ends up being him punching me in the chest instead of meeting his other hand! Also, he LOVES to blow raspberries any time he finds a neck, check, arm, etc. Over and over – it is so funny! He does a lot of babbling, and can make the sounds “ma-ma,” “da-da,” and “ba-ba” but isn’t using them intentionally. This is so odd for me as our older son already had a large handful of words he was saying by this point (I know, not to compare, but just… well, it’s funny to see how they are so different).

Eating: It’s non-stop. In fact, I am a little concerned because I don’t think I’ve ever seen him stop eating before I cut him off. He’ll eat just about anything (but if it’s green it has to come from a jar, because apparently homemade green stuff is not acceptable!). So it’s great that Earth’s Best (of course!) sent me the Veggie Purees pouches last month for him! I can tell he does miss the sweet fruity-ness, but gets a lot of good green veggie nutrition this way! (Try Carrots & Broccoli or Squash and Peas for best bets!). He can already eat a pouch by himself, but it is still a messy event!

He’s actually eating a lot of “real / whole” foods… as long as they are soft and easy to grasp, he will gum it and eat it! I’ve watched him down a whole roasted sweet potato in one sitting (and this is after nursing!), then happily reach for cheese, Cheerios, and whatever else is around. I don’t think he ever has a clean face unless it’s right after bath time! (which he loooooves).

Breastfeeding: He’s still nursing five times a day, just about. Very distracted at this point so it’s easier when he’s sleepy. He has a bad habit of pushing on my chest with his outer arm while he nurses. I am going to see my breastfeeding specialist as this can get rather uncomfortable over time and I can’t seem to break him of this habit. Anybody else have a “strong-arm” baby?

Sleeping: (Break out the band music!) He’s been sleeping through the night MOST nights the past two weeks. This is, to me, nothing short of a miracle as our first son didn’t start REGULARLY sleeping through the night until about two and a half!! He will sleep generally from 7:45/8:00 pm to almost 7:00 am. Excited!!!

Cloth diapering: We’re still CD-ing full time for the most part. However, I’m noticing the same rashing with him that started with my first son RIGHT about this age (between 8-10 months). I am fairly sure it’s teething or ammonia at this point, since I dealt with this so much in the past. I’m trying various creams but nothing takes it away better than just putting him in disposables for a few changes with lots of cream. Especially overnight to keep the moisture really away from his skin. Fortunately, as an Earth’s Best blogger, I was sent their chlorine-free disposable diapers at no charge to try out. They are made from only chlorine free absorbent materials (with natural absorbent materials like corn and wheat) that are NEVER treated with chlorine bleaching agents. It’s nice to know when I have to help my baby’s bum heal up, I can reach for these diapers. We’ve not had a leak yet and they’ve been working great at night-time (I always have ammonia issues with night time diapering!).

And… he still loves to hug and snuggle. We’ve all just grown deeper in love with this little boy every month! We’re excited for the start of summer with him and to see what he does next? Will it be words or walking first? Can’t wait to find out!

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DarcyMay 21, 2013 - 2:47 am

Wow 10 months already?! Love the scrunchy face!

Both of my kids like to push on me while nursing so I kept redirecting/distracting by taking ahold of the hand and just holding hands and saying not to push on mommy. The worst is the pinching. I hope my son doesn’t do that as much as my daughter did.
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Jessica AMay 20, 2013 - 2:26 pm

Oh goodness… What an adorable little man! He is getting so big! He’s only about 3 weeks behind Natalie and you need to be thankful he’s not crawling yet! HA! Nat is all over the place, pulling to stand. She wants to chase after her brothers SO badly! :) I just love the ‘grouchy’ picture.. Such a CUTIE! <3
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Sandy VanHoeyMay 20, 2013 - 11:46 am

Cute pics and an adorable baby. I loved the nose wrinkling in that pic too.

Trisha W.May 20, 2013 - 10:01 am

I love the grinning photo and thought I could see A a bit in the second picture. When I read E was 10 months old the first thing that popped in my head, aside from no way, was “I wonder what theme Julie will choose for the party.” Regarding the nursing, I’ve had babies push rather hard on my chest while they were nursing. At times it felt like they were thinking they were helping to get the milk out. LOL. I have no tips for you but wanted to let you know you’re not alone. On the topic of speech, it is highly likely that E is just taking everything in and with three people attending to his needs he doesn’t feel called to speak just yet. You are correct though in that it is interesting how different each kiddo can be. Mary Elizabeth, my seventh child and third girl is very chatty and has had a large vocabulary from a young age. She doesn’t always pronounce everything properly but boy does she have a lot to say. The other day she came up to me with a cowboy hat on and excitedly happy said, “I’m a cowgirl.” She then paused for a second and switched her voice to a bit down sounding and said, “but I can’t find my cow.” When I retold the story to someone, Mary Elizabeth was in the room and commented, “I told you that!” Well, I have more to say but my lack of paragraph usage is bugging me so I will end.

AngelaMay 20, 2013 - 2:58 am

Your little guy is very cute. My son will be 1 year on 5/28 & I just discovered his first tooth this weekend :) I will be trying out the veggie from Earth’s Best based on your recommendation.

What is the role of a Christian parent? {book reviews}

“Am I doing this right?” When it comes to raising children of faith, I not only wonder if my parenting is right, but if we’re being strong spiritual leaders as well.

I’m thankful for the opportunity to review two books sent at no charge from the publishers: Intentional Parenting and Connecting Church & Home. Here’s my thoughts (stay tuned for a giveaway!).


Intentional Parenting by Goff, Thomas, and Trevathan (Thomas Nelson) had me crying “YES! Yes, yes,” and nodding my head vigorously page after page. It’s part common sense that needs repeating and heeding, and part age-appropriate scenarios and examples to help parents understand how to become intentional in their parenting.

Instead of parenting by the seat of your pants, the authors advise a thoughtful, prayerful, plan-ful approach. Parenting out of who you are as a Christian parent and not from what you feel in the moment or because of your upbringing/history.

A good way to understand what intentional parenting means is to ask, What stories will your kids have about you as a parent? Are you acting as the parent you want them to remember? What is the vision for your family? What core values do you want to instill? 

The book covers topics like how to identify the kind of parent you are (and how to improve!), how to be balanced, consistent, playful, and spiritual, among other topics. Each chapter is divided into advice for parents of toddlers, children, and teenagers, which is helpful for finding the information for your child.

Overall, the book is an easy read, yet makes you think. I’ll definitely be re-reading this one! It’s full of encouragement, real life examples and some scripture. I wished there’re was more supportive scripture to each point, but, since this is written for Christian parents, I think it is clear how the principles were drawn from the Bible.

 

Connecting Church & Home by Dr. Tim Kimmel (Randall House) was a great book to follow the above. With refreshing clarity, Kimmel pinpoints issues plaguing our culture when it comes to faith and family.

What struck a chord was how families have “outsourced” spirituality to the church. Instead of parents bringing their children to church “full” of the Spirit and ready to worship, they arrive empty.

“Strong families make strong churches.” God intended families to be primarily responsible for spiritual upbringing, with the church as a complement and support.

The concepts in this book are ones I’ve been mulling over for some time – how do I connect our children’s hearts to God? I’ve noticed my  understanding of God has deepened since becoming a parent, because I’m finally understanding God as a Father. As a Parent.

As this book points out, many Christian families spend too much time ticking off “line items” from their Christian “checklist” – things they think they must “do” to raise godly kids. (Now, my Type-A side finds this appealing and concrete!). However, we’re supposed to relate to our children the way God relates to us, to show our kids the way to Christ.

The over-arching theme of the book seems to be one of encouraging families to strive towards building a spiritual disposition in their children, rather than simply outwardly spiritual “behavior” that isn’t true relationship with God.

My favorite chapter was the last – full of resources for parents to guide children through various stages of life from baby dedication to graduation. I’m interested to go online and check out the Family Land Map – a grace-based ministry map for homes and churches alike to keep the focus on building character and developing spiritual relationships.

Both these book speak to the topic of our role as Christian parents – it’s not to be passive. It’s about growing in grace and in the knowledge of the Lord… and transferring this understanding as a spiritual legacy to our children. As parenting seems to be growing more hurried and more harried, I am confident these books will encourage and refocus our parenting.

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ChelseaMay 20, 2013 - 11:38 pm

One of my concerns while raising my 3 girls is that I haven’t properly shown them what having self confidence looks like… I’d love for my girls to grow up with confidence in their looks and abilities

Amanda AlvaradoMay 20, 2013 - 9:54 pm

I am afraid that no matter how much I teach and shelter dd, she will still choose the wrong path. I watched my ds choose the wrong path time and time again even though he was raised right. He’s now paying for those decisions but finally seems to be getting his stuff together (the power of prayer!) and is actually talking to us and visiting! :-)

Jen HMay 20, 2013 - 11:57 am

I read a lot while I was pregnant (and unemployed due to hurricane irene) and everything by Ina May Gaskin stuck with me the most. so inspirational! and useful!

Laurie WaltersMay 20, 2013 - 9:29 am

Just finished Tim Kimmel’s Grace-Based Parenting and think that it is an excellent one for parents of children of any age. Now looking for some helpful resources for discipline ideas for my toddler!

ColleenMarie82May 20, 2013 - 9:03 am

That no mater what I do, or plan I will make so mistake that will change my kids lives forever. (maybe not that dramatic, but you get the idea).

I truly believe prayer is the only thing that will work.

Not just for breastfeeding! mombo nursing pillows

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I would have thought by three years and two kids later I’d be set with my baby gear. But the truth is, I keep finding more great products to love! 

Take nursing pillows. Now… I had kind of stopped using my other ones at this point since our baby is 10 months old. And squirmy while nursing – especially if big brother is around to entertain him!

Then I tried out the mombo nursing pillow - it’s got several features I had never tried out before in a nursing pillow. So now I have it hanging around all the time!

The shape of the mombo is unique in that it has a wider front/center area for baby to rest on and then narrower “arms,” as I call them to wrap around you while you nurse.

Then there’s the Firm2Soft™ - each side of the mombo has a different feel. There’s a soft and cozy side with a microplush material. Very inviting for baby to snuggle and sleep (with or without mommy – my son loves to just lounge on this side!). The firm side has great support for nursing the baby – although my son prefers the soft side. I imagine a smaller/younger baby would like firm support, and the firm side would help moms nurse easier!

Now for my favorite feature – the vibration! Tuck in the sleek vibrating device into the nursing pillow and your baby gets a soothing experience. It’s a very gentle rhythm – I imagine a baby would just fall right asleep to this gentle motion.

Check out the mombo in my video – you can see how easy it was to turn the vibration on and off:

I used to think nursing pillows were just for breastfeeding moms – before I became a mom! The mombo is especially “not just for breastfeeding” because of the cool vibrating feature that babies might enjoy to relax with. It’s also great for sitting baby up, or having tummy time!

mombo nursing pillows (available at Babies R Us) come in an assortment of pillow styles (Standard, Deluxe, or Nude™). Plus there’s slipcover fashions to pick from so you can express your style, or have a spare for laundry time! Every part of the mombo has a quality construction to it, making this a pillow I’d recommend.

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